For a long time, I couldn’t bring myself to write my “About” section.
As a typical overthinker and perfectionist, I would spend too much time in my head, rambling about what to write, checking other people’s profiles for inspiration, and eventually doubting whether what I wrote made any sense or if anyone would even be slightly interested in what I have to say.
Eventually, I decided to let go of my all-or-nothing mindset and write a very honest and open letter about myself and my story so that you can get to know me better and see what to expect from my newsletter.
I would divide my life into two parts:
Before and after moving from Poland to the UK.
Before and after getting into unhealthy relationships.
Before and after becoming self-employed.
and recently: Before and After losing my Dear Dad...
The first 3 are probably the highlights of my life’s decisions. The lessons I’ve learnt from each of these experiences will provide me with writing content forever. They all have one main trait in common: EXPLORATION.
I’m genuinely interested in self-exploration.
I seek freedom, I aim to live with integrity, and love is the main driving force in my life.
I am heart-centred. I make decisions based on my gut feelings and try to figure out the logistics later.
Making peace with the chimp on my shoulder, who tries to sabotage my life every time things go well, is a work in progress.
I hold a grudge against this little gremlin since, when between 2014 and 2016, I had quite a successful blog that was gaining notice, appreciation, and popularity, but I pulled the plug. The success freaked me out. My insecure ego decided to keep me in hiding.
Back then, I didn’t know much about inner work and how transitioning my identity from conformist to non-conformist requires a lot of support from someone outside my head—someone who believes in me and points me in the right direction when self-doubt kicks in.
However, deep down, I believe I am a naturally born leader and entrepreneur, but because my mum didn’t see these qualities as valuable, the journey to freedom, fulfilment, and unconditional love has been somewhat slow and filled with occasional burnouts.
My writing is open, honest, and vulnerable.
I share personal stories on many subjects like love, relationships, family dynamics, and solopreneurship. But sometimes, I experience a vulnerability hangover and struggle to pick myself up after writing a deep dive into my soul. I am working on my consistency and notice that the more I write, the easier it gets. I mention this in case I have an unexpected break from sending my ‘weekly’ newsletter.
What I love writing about
I delve quite deeply into family dynamics, especially my relationship with my narcissistic mum—how it shaped me, how it changed over time, and how I managed to let go of any expectations towards her, appreciate her efforts and forgive her for letting me down many times during my teenage and early adulthood years.
My transition from a full-time marketing/operations manager to a self-employed solopreneur took me by surprise, even though I had been planning it for a long time. So, I am glad that sometimes life decides for you. I will be sharing my experiences in finding my first paid clients, networking as an introvert, and the mindset struggles I am still working on.
Why the Simply Inspired Newsletter?
Inspiration has always worked better for me than persuasion, pressure, or guilt-tripping. I dread those writers who make me feel like a loser for not living their way. I believe that by sharing my journey and my stories, I will spark inspired action in you to reach for what you’ve been thinking about for a while but have been waiting for a sign. I also know from my readers that they resonate with my writing, especially the subjects about the relationship with my mum.
“Hi Magda, Just wanted to reach out and let you know that I find your emails really grounded and inspiring. I love that you share your personal story, and it always seems authentic and easy to resonate with.” ~ Tanya
“Your email really hit home for me, and I've had to go deeply inwards to move on from not being good enough for my Mum, despite on the surface having what appears to be a good relationship (but clearly isn’t!). Thank you for having the bravery and honesty to put your thoughts out there. You are helping others more than you might realise, especially when the world they thought they lived in wasn’t what they believed it was.” ~ Liz
“Thank you for such an honest post, Magda ❤️ I think there are many people who could relate to you in one way or another. The relationship with our parents can get complicated at times.” ~ Anna
“Thank you, Magda. A truly honest and insightful post. One that resonates deeply.” ~ Sarah
In my articles, I will be sharing what I have learnt on my journey to love, fulfilment, and freedom and how I managed to maintain inner peace—something that, for me, is indeed a true success. I might also share occasional thoughts on the ups and downs of being a solopreneur.
My ambitious plan is to write and publish a book next year.
Your support will keep me going and help me reach my goal.
Thank you for being here, and if you would like to share your thoughts with me on anything, feel free to message me!